What To Do?

2 08 2010

So I’m torn. I recently found someone on a popular dating site I am on, who is something of a local celebrity. I am unsure if I really would want to date this person or if I’m just intrigued by their pseudo-celebrity status.

This person’s job is also one of my dream jobs, and if I did want to date this person, would it seem like I am just using them to gain a connection into my dream job?  Or could that just be a really cool interest that we share? I don’t know.

I’m also pretty sure that if something became of us, then this guy’s entire office would know about me. That isn’t necessarily a bad thing, but due to the nature of this guy’s job, a lot of strangers could pass many negative judgements on me, and while there’s not much I could do about that, it’s also not really something I would be welcome to.

It’s a huge gamble, and I guess I can’t be sure that any of this forecasting would even happen if I don’t go on a simple date or don’t chose to pursue him of course. But I am afraid of how I could be perceived, if that was the case.

Does anyone have any suggestions? Should I pursue this guy and see what happens (if anything)? For all I know, this could just result in just another failed flirtation attempt, in which case, of course it would be disappointing, but maybe not the end of the world. Ideas? Thoughts?




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